DEAR WORRIED: Your boyfriend is telling you what he wants. He is not promising exclusivity, and if you continue to date him expecting that he will eventually settle in and choose you, you will probably be disappointed. At four months in, if he was as into you as you are to him, and if he felt ready and able to commit to exclusivity, he would be locking it down. You don’t mention what “things” he has to sort out. It’s possible that the only things he needs to sort out are other women. And there’s nothing wrong with that, as long as he is honest with you (and them).

SUNNYVALE ART AND WINE FESTIVAL: More than 300 artists and blush lace ballet slippers - flower girl shoes - baby and toddler girl - christening - baptism crafts makers, food and drink, entertainment, 10 a.m.-6 p.m, June 6-7; Downtown Sunnyvale at Washington and Murphy avenues; free admission; 408-736-4971, www.svcoc.org, SUNSET CELEBRATION WEEKEND: Seminars on gardening, cooking, travel, recreation and home decor, hands-on projects, food, wine and beer tasting, garden tours, 10 a.m.-5 p.m, June 6-7; Sunset Magazine headquarters, 80 Willow Road, Menlo Park; $22-$25 advance/$27-$35 door (kids under 12 free); www.sunset.com..

With shout-outs to everyone from Hegel to Bertolt Brecht, Carson unfolds this sometimes puzzling deconstruction of the fate of Antigone, doomed daughter of Oedipus. When her dead brother is branded a traitor, his body left unburied beyond the city’s walls, desecrated by vultures, Antigone (Rami Margron) erupts in “thunder looks.”. She cannot stomach this unsavory end for her own flesh and blood. In spite of her uncle Kreon’s (an intense Kevin Clarke) forbidding and her sister Ismene’s (Monique Jenkinson) pleading, she flouts the law of the land and stages her own funeral rites outside the war-ravaged city.

On weekdays, Squirrel Creek hosts corporate parties, serves dinner to members and entertains different groups that want the facility more for its space than its provocative weekend vibe, Long before she got married, Emily Bitti knew monogamy wasn’t for her, Good thing that her husband agreed, For about a decade, the Colorado pair have hit swingers clubs, attended meet-and-greet events at bars, booked vacations at adults-only resorts, and gone on dates with people other than their spouses, Where some couples might dabble in partner swapping, blush lace ballet slippers - flower girl shoes - baby and toddler girl - christening - baptism it’s a way of life for Bitti and her husband..

LEO (July 23- Aug. 22): Lead by example. Don’t just tell others what to do; show them. Others will respect your authority all the more if you practice what you preach rather than just preaching. You’ll be far more satisfied by doing rather than thinking today. VIRGO (Aug. 23- Sept. 22): Get things started. No matter what you’ve set your mind to do, now is the time to get things underway. Someone near and dear to your heart may inspire you to create something wonderful. LIBRA (Sept. 23- Oct. 22.): Follow the leader. Let a special someone’s vim and vigor be contagious and allow them to take charge of the day’s activities, no matter where they may take you. Business matters can take a back seat to matters of the heart for now.